Well, if I could figure out how to "Reply to Comment" and not to post... *bops self on the head*
I found a page that had more detailed versions of that test, and the importance of "being strong and in control" was *unfailingly* the last one on the list. The most important fluctuated between being accepted, being at peace, and being helpful. They were usually within one point difference of each other.
I wondered why "being safe and secure" wasn't higher on the list... it was usually about halfway down. But I guess it's because I kept saying that I don't necessarily look out for myself or look before I leap. But that's why I like having a Dom - I like them to do that for me. *laugh* I get along well with assertive people, because when conflict arises, I just sort of step back and look at them and say, "Do your thing." No such thing as a power struggle with me. *laugh*
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I found a page that had more detailed versions of that test, and the importance of "being strong and in control" was *unfailingly* the last one on the list. The most important fluctuated between being accepted, being at peace, and being helpful. They were usually within one point difference of each other.
I wondered why "being safe and secure" wasn't higher on the list... it was usually about halfway down. But I guess it's because I kept saying that I don't necessarily look out for myself or look before I leap. But that's why I like having a Dom - I like them to do that for me. *laugh* I get along well with assertive people, because when conflict arises, I just sort of step back and look at them and say, "Do your thing." No such thing as a power struggle with me. *laugh*