Today's thoughts on writing are about things I can't control: not getting rejection letters. To be fair I started running into this 20 years ago with Academia. Getting that first interview and then...nothing. And academia is very slow so it's nothing to wait 6 weeks and you're there thinking do I do this other one when I REALLY want this place.
I see it all the time in publishing now. A friend just found out he didn't win an award to an award he was nominated for by seeing an award list somewhere. No one had even bothered to send the nominees the list first. I'm sitting around with my files because I've gotten serious enough about short story writing that I have spreadsheets of dates submitted and when I see it's been 6-8 weeks or after they said they'd notify us I go looking. How many times have I been there (all of us been there) sitting around in hope eternal thinking oooo it's been a long time I must be in the top 10! Only to find out the book's been out 2 weeks and no one bothered to reject me.
It's actually pretty dehumanizing. It's enough to make you want to toss in the towel (especially giving the pay scale or worst when it's an actual teaching job) Sometimes you're warned about it. 'we don't have time to reject you.' Fair, it's on me then if I submit and often I do not unless it's a very cool theme or the pay is great. I DO keep score on the ones that don't tell you they're not going to be telling you and just ghost you.
On the other hand right now the two upcoming anthologies the editors are in contact often and that is so reassuring and wonderful and I would write for them again.
So how do you deal with this side of publishing? Any insights? Just roll with it? Grumble a bit (My choice)
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