um, because I'm useless when it comes to computer things

[cornerofmadness]

can anyone tell me HOW to respond to the screened comments without unscreening them? I don't see an option for that! I replied to one and thought I say 'comment is now unscreened' then replied to another and yep, that is the case (don't worry ladies, I went back and deleted your comments off so no one would get those addresses. Sorry!! Damn) What in the heck am I doing wrong? I mean what's the point of screening if it doesn't stay that way?